the guy who has a gf wrote on his index card, that i and him would be a first couple. so what does this mean for me?
@christinyan - Honestly, I stand by the comment I wrote on your blog (along with the huge disclaimer I connected to it). If he’s clearly in a committed relationship with another woman already (which is what it seems like from what you’ve already disclosed) then the decision is entirely yours; whether or not you wish to impinge upon that. If your morality is of the sort that allows you to pursue him unabated, then I’m not the type of person to urge you to go against your nature. I would say that the solution to this depends far more on how you feel than anyone else. Perhaps you need to do a bit of soul searching to figure out that answer for yourself. No one will ever know you better than you know yourself, so the answer is right there in your brain somewhere.
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the guy who has a gf wrote on his index card, that i and him would be a first couple. so what does this mean for me?
@christinyan - Honestly, I stand by the comment I wrote on your blog (along with the huge disclaimer I connected to it). If he’s clearly in a committed relationship with another woman already (which is what it seems like from what you’ve already disclosed) then the decision is entirely yours; whether or not you wish to impinge upon that. If your morality is of the sort that allows you to pursue him unabated, then I’m not the type of person to urge you to go against your nature. I would say that the solution to this depends far more on how you feel than anyone else. Perhaps you need to do a bit of soul searching to figure out that answer for yourself. No one will ever know you better than you know yourself, so the answer is right there in your brain somewhere.